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How can i tell if this guy is a temptation, or someone i am meant to help?
Posted on Sunday, Feb 28, 2010 by Christiangurrll818
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I'm 15 and i have accpeted jesus into my heart. Recently, I've been very depressed about having never had a boyfriend yet. I recently went to church camp, and they discused something intresting. They called it "letting god write your love story" and its about just giving up trying so hard to find someone and letting god bring that person into your life when he thinks your ready. so it really inspired me, and i have done that. well a week later my friend introduces me to this guy in my neighbor hood and hes really sweet and nice but really quiet. he seems to really like me, but i just recently discovered he has never been to church but wants to go to see what it would be like. Do you think god is tempting my new dedication to letting god bring the person in my life, or do you think this is the person he wants me to be with? im so confused.
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You are MUCH TOO young to be going out with anyone, regardless of faith. Men/boys whether Christian or not only want one thing, and I needn't have to point that out to you, you should know that already.
Because God sanctifies realtions between a man and a woman there are many men in the Church who will use this to get what they want from the very young, the weak, and also the vulnerable, thus they sleep with whoever they wish because God said it is "OK".
Don't believe them, keep yourself busy, follow your faith, not men or boys.
i dont think 15 is too young to have a boyfriend. 13 maybe, but ive seen fourth graders with more boyfriends than me.
Let's try and look at this from Jesus's perspective. Whether you asked for a boyfriend or not, the fact remains that GOD has allowed a non christian person to enter your life who is curious about Jesus. I think the important thing here is to try and get him to believe in Jesus Christ our Savior. Whether you are old enough to date or not is something I think that is between you and Jesus. You know what's right and everyday you make choices that basically are to sin or not to sin. I see Jesus using you to bring this lost soul under his care. Only time will tell whether or not the boy is the one GOD wants you to be with. I also see this as a test of your faith since you like him and he likes you. When or if the time of temptation comes, will you choose GOD and do the right thing or will you choose the boy and sin(I Corinthians 6:18, I Corinthians 6:19, and I Corinthians 6:20)? I ask that you read I Corinthians chapter 6.
The important thing here is to try and make that unbeliever a believer in Jesus, and in time God will reveal to you whether or not the boy is the one. I hope this helps.
Keep the faith sister. You'll be in my prayers.
Wisdom is needed. Why consider a serious relationship at 15? Much better to develop and enjoy good social relationships with both sexes at your age. That way you will mature, you will have experiences of different people, you will develop social skills and you won't be facing issues that intimacy can bring to a relationship.