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im a going behind my parents back?
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so im 16 and im not allowed to date yet but i have a friend and we been friends since i was like 8 but he recently became my best friend when he got cancer nd we started talking alot and we both really like eachother alot..he know that im nt allowed to date yet and respects that but we act like we date by the way we talk and act..is that going behind my parents back or am i not??
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ask your parents how they feel about you dating this person. They may reconsider or give you a little more space if they feel you are mature enough to handle it. You may have to promise not to let it compromise your school work
yea i thought about that but the thing is they like a guy untill i start likeing him and then they get all overprotective so i just never tell thm anything about him anymore...so like i just gave up on trying to ask them
well i'll put it this way. Don't go behind their back or trust can become a real issue. And if you're found out the it could make things so much worse in your home. Is this worth having your parents not trust you again. They may start watching eveything you do
well i wasnt thinking about goin behind there back... me and him agreed that once my parents let me date he would ask me but i was just wondering if i kinda was goin behind there back by the way me and hima act and talk around eachother
yeah i've sorta got the same problem.
i was planning on boldly going up to mum and saying that i love this guy. Asking that she could please respect the fact that its a major show of trust by telling her that, and respect that she trained me well enough to know whats good for me.
i planned a number of ways to respond to whatever way she reacted.
but if you think your'e doing whats right, then its best to be bold about it.
i was thinking about that too but the thing is my mom doesnt really like him and is always like hes not the one for you but i reslly like him sooo i dont kno wat to do
As a woman who went through the same thing. I too was mad at my mother for butting in i wish i had listened, things may have turned out better for me. notice that you have the same question? Its because its so common that i've seen it a million times. In fact the same thing is happening in my family now and a million others for that fact. I know you feel like mom just does'nt uderstand and maybe he really is a great guy. But when parents look at their daughter they see how beautiful wonderful and smart you are. And when a relationship comes along all of that talent and potential fade because you are focused on your relationship not on your destiny. You are so young that you can't see it. Your parents are doing this for a reason. You may not listen to me, but one day i promise you will remember what i said. (Your parents are trying to do whats best for you in the long run) i know it sucks
im also not sure what you mean by acting like your dating. But jusk ask yourself,would your parents were secretly wachting you,would they be disapointed
wow thanks i never thought of it that way :) and what i ment by we acting like we are dating is like if someone was to hear our converesations or see how we act around each other they would think we are dating... but thanks that actually really helped:)