Should my husband and I abstain from each other if we are going through a separation?

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We have been married for over 13 years and never had any real attraction for one another. Since the kids and I have moved out to live with my parents, and we have gone through all of the anger/sadness/numbness of this legal separation process, all of the sudden we are attracted to each other. It is almost like I have to find excuses to get away and spend time with him without anyone knowing since they will think I'm crazy!

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blessed0203
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Thu, 08/19/2010 - 12:38pm

You're not crazy. It's apparent what you needed was a time out. A breather. Time away. Maybe even some adventure. The sneaking around has apparently rekindled the romance. I suggest if you are seperated, don't consider divorce because it's apparent you still care for eachother.

Continue to play the cat and mouse game, after all you are married. Enjoy this time together and dare to make it even more adventurous. Just because the plant stopped receiving water doesn't mean it's dead.

I believe your marriage can be rekindled. Ask God to help you and your hubby strengthen this relationship according to His will and just have fun.

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