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What do I do if I recently realized that I love my best friend more than a friend (I'm a guy and she is a girl), but she doesn't have feelings for me in that way?
Posted on Wednesday, Aug 25, 2010 by omegablue8392
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I'm convinced that I love her as much as any family member, and would easily spend the rest of my life with her. She says she likes me more than a friend a little bit, but doesn't act like it much, and also say she can't have a boyfriend in her life right now, but she recently told me she's seriously considering dating this other guy she just met, when me and her have known each other for countless years.
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sounds as if she does not see you in that way if she tells you that she is not looking for something more than friendship then is different with another guy. If you feel like you don't want tl jeperdise the relationship you may want to leave things the way they are. Otherwise things can be very akward when one of you have a date
I know it must be so hard for you to hear about her love life. Hav3 you told her how you feel? Does she know? If not, would you be willing to risk your friendship by revealing it to her? Some people take it okay, but some just become so wierded out that their friendship crumbles.
It's a tough call if she doesn't know. In my opinion, I would be the friend she wants you to be. Be there for her and when she needs a sholder to cry on, give her one. Treat her like she means the world to you and above all pray about it. God's timing is always perfect. If this is the girl for you, He won't let her get away...if it's meant to be.
Sometimes what we have always wanted and searched for is right infront of our faces, but we never saw it. Until one day God openes up our eyes and He wows us...awww sounds like the making of a good movie...but seriously though. Don't be bitter when she tells you about other guys. I know it hurts or it's going to hur, but be strong. If she's the one, then she's worth waiting for. In the mean time, if she doesn't know you can possibly drop some hints, make them subtle though, you don't want to scare her off....God luck.